It's all so crap and not how I wanted my little family to be at all, especially with 2 such young dc's. I don't regret the split at all, he was starting to be emotionally abusive, not to mention adulterous, but it just seemed so cold and horrible, after over 10 years together, that we've been reduced to formalities on the doorstep. Horrid.
I hope it gets easier. It's just very raw when I'm still realising the extent of the affair he was having. I'm being as civil as I can, but I just can't be smiley with him at all. None of us deserved the way he's treated us and I can't pretend nothing's happened.
Still, on the bright side I had a fab weekend shopping and drinking mulled wine with friends.. !
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H just had dc's for weekend - first one and feeling a bit wobbly..
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tiredoftherain · 06/12/2009 18:55
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