I've been with my DP for a little over a year and we haven't had an arguement yet. I don't know whether to worry or not. He is a very calm person and not given to getting in a flap. I'm also generally quite calm and mostly flap-free. Some things get my goat, but not many. We don't see each other a huge amount and don't live together.
On the other hand, a friend of mine has been with her DP for about as long and they argue like cat and dog.
so, is it ok not to have anything to disagree about? can this be normal? I don't feel that I am suppressing my true feeling to avoid conflict (this is what I have done in the past, but this feels different). I don't feel that he is doing that either.
what do you reckon?
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arguements - are they obligatory?
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totallyawesome · 03/12/2009 16:54
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