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I have fallen for my gynaecologist.

(38 Posts)
chirpee Fri 20-Nov-09 22:36:10

I had 2 operations earlier in the year and have become completely infatuated with my gynaecologist. I am very happily married with a fulfilling life so it came as a complete shock. It has turned my life upside down and the thought of not seeing him again is making me so unhappy. Has anyone else experienced anything like this and if so how did they get over it?

fanjolina Fri 20-Nov-09 22:40:49

biscuit

Hmmm. Two years ago, I also fell for a man who had spent a fair bit of his time tinkering with my nether regions for money. It's a toughie...

halfcut Fri 20-Nov-09 22:44:02

ಠ_ಠ

halfcut Fri 20-Nov-09 22:44:23

oops ignore lol

Bunnysoprano Fri 20-Nov-09 22:48:46

Book in for a smear once a week?

displayuntilbestbefore Fri 20-Nov-09 22:50:33

rofl Bunnysoprano

seriously, though, OP?

warthog Fri 20-Nov-09 22:59:35

hmmm must be embarrassing if you're always wet when he examines you.

WhenwillIfeelnormal Fri 20-Nov-09 23:01:03

Is his name Richard/Martin/Neil by any chance?

displayuntilbestbefore Fri 20-Nov-09 23:01:52

my god - there are 3 of them? wink

Ivykaty44 Fri 20-Nov-09 23:02:22

go out the front door and peer in the letter box, sit there all day looking through. This is how your gyne ses you smile

beeny Fri 20-Nov-09 23:03:20

Is Neil based in Yorkshire

I have quite a thing for my Yorkshire gynaecologist. Can't remember his name, but he has lovely eyes and is based in Leeds

Bunnysoprano Fri 20-Nov-09 23:16:52

Try and remember his name Pushmepullyou - I am based in Manchester and don't mind travelling! grin

displayuntilbestbefore Fri 20-Nov-09 23:21:11

You're much braver than me.
I can't even consider going to see any remotely attractive doc for anything of a more "womanly" nature. I blushed furiously when a handsome gp held my broken ankle so can't imagine what I'd be like if I had to lie under an oversized papertowel for a gorgeous gynae blush shock

SheWillBeLoved Fri 20-Nov-09 23:46:16

What's that thing called when you fall in lust with somebody who has helped you a lot? As in a professional person. Like a therapist etc...

That's what first came to mind upon reading this. The second thing was that you opened your legs for him before you even went on a date - I'm sure there's nothing more he wants or needs to see! Get over it. Concentrate on your husband.

sorry but roflgrin
im due to ahve some operations coming and sadly i have lady gynaecologist. so odnt know what im missing therewink

whoisasking Sat 21-Nov-09 10:14:06

SWBL - it's called transference.

I feel sorry for gynies actually, I mean, if I met a gorgeous man with a good sense of humour, big dick and kind eyes, the minute he told me he spent his working week rummaging around in minge, I think I'd probably call it all off.

BeehiveBaby Sat 21-Nov-09 10:25:32

There is a scene in Friends where Rachel flirts with a gynae Dr who says he doesn't date much. He asks her if she gets home from work and thinks 'if I ever see another cup of coffee again, I'm going to scream?' or words to that effect....does that help?!

I think it's Martin Grifiths Jones at St James's, but I would advise caution as he is just too gorgeous to discuss endometrial symptoms with I have found blush.

<disclaimer - I have not seen him for a couple of years so don't blame me if he's now old and fat wink>

MavisEnderby Sat 21-Nov-09 20:32:07

Oh goodness I am ROFL at this thread (Sorry,op).It reminds me of a recent bizarre convo with the new junior doc on our ward who was telling us about his last placement which was on Gynae."I never thought I would say this" he told us during a rare quiet moment on nights "But I got really fed up with peering at womens fanjos".He then went on to declare "It got to the stage I could almost guess waht a woman's fanjo would look like just by looking at her face" (WTF?)

Myself and colleagues exchanged many hmm glances and I will now remain biscuit on the matter.

Juillet Sat 21-Nov-09 20:36:10

Oh God I fancy my GP. blush

Sadly he is happily married but still...Oh what I would give for a proper conversation in a coffee shop rather than a swift exchange in a surgery..

<panics about what her face says about her fanny>

YanknCock Sat 21-Nov-09 20:57:19

grin 'rummaging around in minge' <<snort>>

boyraiser Sat 21-Nov-09 21:00:23

Hysterical.

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