I've been split up with my husband officially for 4 months now, I moved 300 miles back to my home town with our daughter who is two. We have settled down nicely, in a lovely house, I've got a decent job and were both doing OK?
My ex has stayed down South and travels to see DD whenever he can, he stays in hotels (his choice), I will never stand in the way of them seeing each other and do anything I can for them to stay in contact. He is a wonderful daddy to her and she adores him. However, I have been letting her stay in the hotels with him and it is confusing her, she comes back and is distraught that her daddy has gone, I can't do anything with her, in fact she was so hysterical last time I had to take her out in the car to a friends to calm her down?
So I've decided that he can now pick her up in the morning (anytime) and bring her back at six, bath her and put her to bed. He has flipped his lid and said this is not fair! He is not the one who has to deal with her when he has gone, I'm not stopping him from seeing her, he has her all day and the next day to, but I think its unfair for her to be staying in different hotel rooms (he is so disorganised he leaves it to late booking to get the same one)! that its going to confuse her?
Opinions please good or bad??
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Am I wrong doing this, ex thinks I am, but I think its reasonable?
mummytowillow · 11/11/2009 21:37
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