My parents split when I was 21 and I thought I had got over it until I had my own kids. Now more than ever I feel like I miss them together so much and this is made worse by the fact that I barely have a relationship with either of them now they have their own lives with new partners and live many miles away.
Its wierd, but I really feel like I am bereaving their loss, even though they haven't died yet. I have tried to form better relationships with both my mum and dad, but it is prooving pointless as it just upsets me more. My dad's partner is so controlling I have only seen him on his own for 2 hours and that was 13 years ago.
I feel I have to cope with rather than change my situation and want to get some form of counselling, but its all way beyond my budget. Any suggestions, or anyone had similar experience?
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My parents divorce still affecting me
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meandtwolittleboys · 07/11/2009 21:21
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