Okay, well I'm very new to this. And have flicked through a few chats and thought maybe I could get someone elses advice. I thought it was just me that had the ex from hell. Its extremely comforting knowing I'm not alone and I'm not going completely mad. My excouldn't bothered with me or our daughter or my daughter from a previous relationship,in fact he was beyond disgusting towards my eldest. I finally found the courage to tell him it was over and he told me he wanted nothing to do with his daughter. Now he's changed his mind. He "wants me back, has seen the error of his ways and will be perfect partner and dad to both girls". Yeah right of course you will. I've had to threaten restraining orders with helpof solicitor due to him sending 30 page pleading letters, 100's of text messages well into the early hours of the morning aswell as all day.So now when he sees his daughter (3 separate occasions in 8 months) he tries to guilt me into getting back with him with the old line of "you're ruining their chances of a normal happy family life". I'm exhausted and have never felt so alone. My friends always hated him and family and now we've split hate hearing his name and don't want to hear the bits that i desparately need to voice to confirm (I think thats the word I need) that I am right and I need help to stay strong. I really just want to hit him with a frying pan everytime I see him.
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Awhowcutewhentheysleep · 04/11/2009 19:56
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