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Please help me through the next hour til best friend arrives.

Those of you who know my story will probably say told you so.

H has just told me he has been shagging someone else.... the same someone I have questioned him abot several times over the ast 9 months

DC are still up I need to be normal, plaese talk and keep me calm

This is the second time he has let me get my defenses down, believe him, come off the benefits and Boom fucked over again

Why am I such a guiliabble cunt

<<manly pat on shoulder>>

He is the muppet

oh sweetheart. i don't know your story and even if i did i wouldn't say i told you so. its very easy to give the great advice when its not your feelings on the line.

He is an utter arse. he has decieved you over and over.

what are your plans now that he has admitted it?

Gosh norks, I'm so sorry to hear that. I can't really offer any advice, but I'll sit with you until someone more useful comes along...

Would you like to tell me what's happened? I'm not familiar with your story...

That said, if you'd rather maintain normality while the DCs are up, we can chat about something else if you'd prefer?

I don't know your story but wanted to say you will be better off without him.
You deserve better.

So sorry.....are you the poster who recently came off all the benefits as you were both 'trying again'?

No idea..
I did ask him if he felt it was all in the past and he said he didn't know

I guess thats it - so fucked off because he let the DC think we were getting on ok and we had begun to show affection in front of them

aaarrrggghhhhhh

NB crossed posts there - I meant more useful than me, not more useful than those who posted before me!

Yep Tifffany thats me

norksy, omg

we are here

Hope you don't mind if Anyfucker fills you in - Don't want to go over it all atm and she has been with me on my ups and downs

And I told you that if you didn't try again you would never know? Well, now you do know, closure time. It's done. You tried.
Has he left you some money to tide you over?

He is lying two faced toad, it's him not you.

No but I have some savings(small but enough to get me through til I can get my benefits online again).

Cannot believe I am going to ring them for the second time in 4 months and say sorry got it wrong can I have them back agian

Was the money for Xmas

Like Tiff says, know you know, closure time at least it will be the last time you have to ring the benefits people under these sort of circumstances, I would demand some money off him to tide you over though!

Kids are running riot, Don't have the energy to stop them

aww norksy, would rather it was all ups !!

long story short, norksy's not-so-D-H has been very "confused" about what he wants in recent months, he left, they have been working on it again, seemingly things going OK, but this shagging around is a new revelation I think

Well you won't be the first this has happened to. Hope he's feeling ashamed of himself too

he is an absolute cock

Sorry Norks - He is a fuckin' Muppet, not you. You just wanted to believe it could all be good between you 2 again.

What made him tell you this now??

BTW <<<small hug>>>

norksy, just throw a few biscuits at the kids

it doesn't matter what they are doing

when your mate arrives, she will sort 'em out

Kids action plan: let them snuggle on the sofa in PJs and watch TV (don't know how old they are but mine love to do this).

Let them have their own way and pour yourself a glass of wine.

Your H is a twunt.

Norks - you are not a muppet. Your DH is a prize fuck muppet.