OK, so I've clearly been dumped.
Have been having a relationship for a few months with guy who I really liked. We haven't been able to meet as often as we would have liked due to various complications but it was going well (I thought) and we texted several times a day and spoke often when we couldn't meet up.
Anyway it became obvious that contact was tailing off from his end so I asked him if he wanted to leave things for now as he obviously wasn't that keen - 'no, he says I want to keep being with you' so I explained I needed to hear from him regularly (not necessarily every day) to keep the relationship going.
Same happened again so spoke to him again and again said look, lets leave it, it's fine, if you're not so keen, I understand (in reality am a bit gutted but can understand if he's not feeling it)and again he said no, I still want to be with you, really like you, sorry haven't been in touch, things will change blah blah. I should have biten the bullet and dumped him then, but I realy liked him, you know how it is ...
Texted me the next day saying 'hi good morning, hope you're OK, text you later' and I haven't heard from him since!
Now I'm not daft, I know I've been dumped (and I'm pretty upset, but that's life, hey ho!) and I totally get that he just wasn't that into me, but why lie?
I don't get it. I gave him two really, really, easy chances with no stress, to just say 'OK it hasn't worked out, lets move on' and he lied and said he still wanted me. Why do they do that?
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why did he do this - insight in male psyche please
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fartychristmaspants · 03/11/2009 22:06
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