Spot of name-changing going on here, apologies.
So, I used to go out with this man, we went out for years, was really serious - we both thought that the other was "The One". I then moved, and he was supposed to follow , but didn't. We broke up, and it was terrible. I felt like I had lost a limb, and it took me ages to get over him. Bless him, he didn't help. Just as I was getting a place where I felt happier and nearly over him, he would phone, or send an email or something, and it would set me right back. We were friends on FB (his invitation), I unadded him, he then asked what had happened and added me again, that kind of thing. Anyway, eventually I got to a point where I could cope, and then met someone else, and it is going wonderfully.
Just after new guy and I started going out and ex found out, ex phoned me (first time in years), to say he was coming to my town for something, could he meet up with me so I could help him with something. I tried to be diplomatic, told new man about this, and in the end ex cancelled. Then, today, out of the blue he phones me to tell me he's been in an accident (he cycles a lot, this used to happen ALL the time) and wanted to have a chat.
We never really spoke about stuff after we broke up, and have only seen each other once since. If I am being totally honest, part of me is still in love with him but it's over, I have a wonderful new man who really cares for me and I do not want to mess it up. Why does he keep on doing this? (oh, and he started his story of how he got injured with "I was cycling to my GF's house ...")
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whywontheleavemealone · 02/11/2009 13:47
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