I have seen many threads about men who go off the rails when they become a dad, and am wondering if men who don't are a rare breed?
My H started to flirt online just 10 days after our dd was born, which escalated to texting/and even phone sex (going through bills in retrospect - phonecalls in the middle of the night, when i was at home breastfeeding our 2 month old baby!)
Ok so that was a while ago (dd 22 months now) and trying to move on from that, when he confesses to an affair with a work colleague, which i suspected but he ALWAYS denied, saying i was neurotic etc..
So he wanted to make a go of our marriage, that is why he ended the affair and told me about it. But that was 2 months ago and he won't move back home even when i asked him, he feels he cannot mend what he has done, that it has come between us forever. Admits to being depressed and reacting badly to pressure of being a dad, moving home..but won't seek help.
Should i leave? I am def going to CAB for legal advice (we have big mortgage and live many miles from family)
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H being an arsehole - affairs etc...should i leave him?
megmums · 16/10/2009 22:39
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