Unsure whether here or AIBU is the best place to post.
DP has a lt chronic illness which was dx 2 yearts ago.He was very ill and spent the majority of a year in hospital
I have 2 dcs 5 and 3 1 who has sn
Recently I started back at work and work nights
I do the majority of childcare and housework,this includes the wahing up,cooking,shopping,cleanign,ironing,paperwork and financesand so on as dp is unable to do it.
I am really tired most of the time.
Dp ha sjust had a pop about us never spending any time together and about me going to bed early (Usually 8-9 if I am not mn )and the fact that when dd is at nursery ams I do tend to get her up and sometimes I go back to bed when both dcs are at school/nursery.
The days Idon't go for a recharge I am usually doing the housework and when dd comes back from nursery this is when I do stuff with her,then when ds gets back it is homework teas washing up and whatnot,then bath and reading/stories and bed,then also attending to dps health stuff as needed
By bedtime (8pm for ds 7.30 for dd plus her usual delaying tactics) I am well knackered and lacking in energy.
I can sort of see a bit where he is coming from but also feel it is important I do rest as if I go under we would all be in a right pickle.
How do I solve this one?Thanks
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MavisEnderby · 24/09/2009 14:16
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