Was with a man for a year, 6 years ago. He was married but I didn't know for 10 months. He was a very good liar. When I found out, I finished it.
He came back with promises that he would leave. I got suckered for 2 more months but refused to be intimate in any way, phone contact only, him kept saying he wanted to be with me, I even went with him to look at flats, met his family. He had never lived alone and wanted to move in with me but I said he needed to live alone before we ever got to that stage. It soon became apparent he wasn't about to leave so I did the decent thing and walked away. Then followed a few months of almost stalker like behaviour, begging me to reconsider so I changed phone numbers, email, etc so he couldn't contact me. Hurt like hell but no way would I be mistress knowingly
So come to the begining of this year and I get a facebook message. He's now divorced and married to someone else. He wanted to apologise for treating me so badly. Which he did and I left it at that. He didn't suggest any friendship or contact, and I was more than happy with that
No contact since until today
I get a phone call. His 2nd marriage has now ended. He is living alone, in his own place. More apologies and talk of how he has been in counselling address a number of issues. He would like to meet for a coffee, catch up
I took his number but haven't given him mine. I don't know what to do!!! I loved him, he hurt me and his 1st wife. He's proved to be a good liar and I don't know if he still is
Would I be totally stupid to give him number and meet up again?? Or should I just forget again
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Old flame back in touch...shit shit shit
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