my partner and i met through work a few years ago and got together last year, and now have a 5 month old dd together. he had a girlfriend when i met him but their relationship was very rocky and he was really unhappy. so i was his shoulder to cry on and there was a definite spark between us. not long after he broke up with his ex we got together.
i felt guilty at the time and still do, but i know how unhappy he was and he kept telling me how happy i made him.
over the last few months i have been having dreams about him having an affair with another girl from work (who has a boyfriend) who he's really good friends with. they go for drinks after work sometimes which i've always been fine with.
but one of the managers saw them out together and told the main manager that they looked very 'couply' together and our manager took the girl into the office and questioned her about it.
yesterday i knew something wasn't feeling right. i read the messages on his phone and there were a few from an unsaved number saying 'i can't do the friends-that-kiss thing anymore because it feels like i'm cheating on my bf' and another message from the same number talks about our manager dragging her into the office. so obviously i've come to the conclusion that its her.
i confronted her about it by text this morning and she said the message was meant for another guy but i just don't know what to believe any more. i love my dp so much but after the way we got together i just can't help thinking that he may do it again.
i text my dp this morning also telling him i'd found the msgs on his phone and he hasn't replied. i just don't know if i've made a huge mistake or if theyr walking all over me.
any advice would be great. x
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laurajess · 14/09/2009 11:06
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