me and h are separating, house is on market but we are both in the house at the moment.it is all very amicable, I have posted here before, H was abroad but we grew apart, he gave me chlamydia etc etc.
Anyway, I have been snooping ( can't help myself)
Have found he is boasting to his expat friends about 'HIS' girl coming over here soon, and a receipt for a Western union money transfer to her last week.I know he was seeing her 2 years ago, but he has been back in uk for 9 months now!
Now I feel like an idiot, he has been playing me! I honestly did not see it coming.
I was told by lawyer that I should get 65% of equity but he won't budge on 50%
We were going to sell the house first, then do divorce later, to save costs.
Now I just want to kill him. I will need his maintenance, so do I sit tight and carry on, spill the beans, or go to a lawyer and fight?
I know one thing, am not divorcing him if that is what he wants, am going to make him bloody wait!
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whitetulips · 25/08/2009 19:21
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