me & Dh have been together 7yrs and have 3 DS's 5,2 & 11wks. I love my kids so much and wouldnt change them for the world but im so bored of my life.
Dh goes out not all the time but quite a bit and im stuck in with the kids, babysitters are hard to get hold of for us.
DH talking bout joining the gym- which I really want to do too but its not close to us & im annoyed cause he just says its not his fault I dont drive. as we cant get sitters I wont be able to go. either way as I dont drive I wouldnt be able to get there easily. I never go out cause we cant afford it(DH doesnt stop me at all) but he always manages to go out when we are skint -fishing, etc.
Me & DH dont have a great sex life high sex drive vs low sex drive but were working on it. Generally he doesnt turn me on the way he used to anymore despite us talking about it & I need to feel loved to want to have sex but I really dont feel loved at all. And he just wants it more. Weve argued so much about it.
I hate saying it but im not sure if I want to be with him most of the time. I love him but hes so selfish & ignorant.
I dont get much time to myself during the day. Ds3 doesnt go to sleep til gone 9 most nights so thats my evening gone too. Its so hard keeping on top of housework etc with 3 young kids- I dont know how others manage it!
I just feel like im stuck in a rut.... I dont have a great deal of friends as im quite shy & the ones I do live a couple of bus rides away or have kids and dont go out much too. My life is just so boring!!! Its really getting me down. Ive had PND before and this feels completely different.
Anyone else feels like this sometimes?
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mel1981 · 13/08/2009 12:56
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