Is there anyone out there that can give me some advice to pass on to my 25 year old niece?
She split up from her 42 year old partner 4 months ago and since then has been verbally abusive to her.
Yesterday he phoned her and threatened to cut her throat. When she ended the conversation he ended up at her front door and scared the life out of her. Unfortunately her 3YO DS tried to open the front door so you can imagine the panic going on at the time Her kids wanted to see their dad (they don't see him very often - his choice), but of course my niece was desperate for him to go away!
The saga ended when she called the police at 7.30 pm, and again at 8.30 pm. They eventually turned up at 11pm, just as her mobile started to ring. Because she ignored the phone call, her ex again turned up at the front door. The police went outside to speak to him and returned 10 mins later advising her to resolve their differences. It turns out he told the police he was merely concerned about the children and denied being abusive at all. He has beaten her in the past and been in prison for violent behaviour.
The question is - what does she do now? she's living back with her dad (who's in America at the mo), is on social benefits and is only 2 streets away from her ex - so easy access.
It has got to the stage where she's afraid to take her DD to school or even leave the house. The police were extremely unhelpful as they can't do anything unless "something happens". She's trapped - help!
Any suggestions gratefully accepted
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Advice needed for my niece who's been threatened by her ex!!
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Dec · 25/05/2005 22:00
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