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Ok. Hello everyone, please can someone give me some advice? Am mid-40s, DS 16 months and 10 years. Fantastic boyfriend, sexy, young, does everything around the house and before DS came along we were at it like those small fluffy creatures but since latest DS born, its all gone VERY quiet. I just don't know how to kick start the relationship again and its getting really depressing. We manage it about once or twice a month and its fine but nowhere near the frequency or length it was before, though I am living with a man who likes his sleep! What can I do? How do I get back that sexy woman he fell in love with? This one just insn't interested.

bumping for you

I don't know but in same boat so will watch with interest

Just do it.... really.. make yourself get back into the habit of having sex more. I was the same after DS was born... he has only just started sleeping well aged 2!! I just never really felt like it and would always prioritise sleep or half an hour on the lap top.. but I made myself do it more and really started to enjoy it more... course we have to be a little more inventive now DS is around but we are both happier.

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no idea, mines been gone a helluva long time.

Behind the sofa?

Sorry first answer from seeing the post.

Bit like you've already heard you kiind of have to do it to get it back.

Have meals together when DCs are in bed, talk, laugh, kiss.....you get the idea!

the only mojo i get near to these days is the magazine.

if its any comfort at all your still getting it more than me....

when you find your mojo draw me a map please!