Namechange as DH knows MN name.
DH is a typical bloke. A real guys guy. Plays competitive cricket, rugby, goes out drinking etc.
This past week, he was out Friday night (spent the night at friends) Saturday night (stayed out all night) and off to spend the night at his sister's as they are doing a BBQ. (not that me and the DCs ever get invited )
Mainly, I am deeply unhappy. I feel ignored, neglected and generally alone. I feel terribly lonely a lot of the time, and taken for granted.
yes, I have tried talking to DH, but he flies off the handle and says, 'fine, I won't ever go out...' and find that I need the space as we argue almost constantly when he's here.
He can get extremely moody and sulks.
We have 2 young DDs. He's an OK father. Not brilliant, and not really involved. He tends to watch TV with them.
On the positive side, he does want me to be happy, but acts like a teenager. We don't sleep in the same bedroom. He says that DD keeps him awake, although he snores very loudly which he won't deal with.
I really don't think he is having an affair as I know where he is when he goes out. There also aren't any other patterns of missed calls, strange phone calls, he leaves his email on all the time etc.
Is it that we are just so incompatible and he's just a party guy?
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whatafoolbelieves · 23/06/2009 17:53
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