Well TBH we have'nt exactly had the perfect realationship for about 2 years now but we've been patching it up for a few months then falling apart and going round and round like that!
Last night I finally said it was over and we both think it's for the best but we are both in bits.
It's like we love and care about each other but we just can't get on, can't seem to give each other what we want so there really is no point anymore
Makes it soo much harder because there are still feelings there but for the sake of us and for the sake of our little boy this cycle needs to end! I feel terrible because DP is moving into my mums on Saturday until he gets sorted and my DS who will e 3 on Friday will be gutted because he's such a daddy's boy.
Tears are streaming down my face at the thought of DP with someone else and at not seeing him everyday but we have been together since we were 14YO so I think it's just ran it's course but it will be massive change for all of us and it seems so sad that there is a little boy caught up in the middle of it all my heartbreak is for him more than me I think.
Sorry for venting so much I just need someone to talk to who won't judge and I need support to stay away from DP in a relationship sense as much as we would love it to work it just won't in the long term.
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DP and I have finally split up after 8 bloody years am in bits :(
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mamadiva · 21/06/2009 13:38
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