It's Saturday night, and I'm alone.
I get just one night per fortnight when I can be with bf, when the kids are away.
So why has he chosen to spend this night with a friend - who he could see anytime- instead of me? He hinted he would rather be with me. Little consolation when he's chosen not to be. Particularly as he does this quite regularly.
I will be seeing him tomorrow, just for the day. And it will then be 2 weeks before I can see him again. Surely a relationship needs more time than this?
How should I be tomorrow?
Do I tell him that I'm feeling hurt? If I tell him, I come across as needy and possessive. And if he does then start seeing me consistently when I'm free - how do I know he's doing it because he really wants to, or just because we had a conversation and he feels he has to?
I think probably I have to just pretend that everything's OK, be happy, try to make the day the best it can be for us. But this is so, so hard!
Any experience of this type of thing please, and any ideas?
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Alone on Saturday night...ideas please?
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neva · 13/06/2009 20:34
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