A friend of mine is considering taking this step and so I'm trying to find out if anyone knows what the process is like. I've namechanged as some people on MN know me personally, and I want to avoid any possibility of anyone tracing this back to my friend.
She's been married for 3 years (no kids) and recently told me about her husband's behaviour - it's sexual abuse, not physical. She is still with him (he travels a lot so she is often home alone) but considering her options. At the moment she's not sure whether to just cut free and divorce, or whether she ought to report him to the police, with the hope of him being less likely to treat other women that way in future.
My concern is that the police route will make it an even longer, heavier and more stressful process, with a lot of things being taken out of her hands. I think it will increase the trauma, with no guarantee of a successul outcome.
At the same time obviously it would be great to be able to do something to protect his future partners.
So what exactly happens when you get the police/ lawyers involved in these situations? What got you through it (or didn't )?
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Has anyone ever reported their partner to the police for abuse?
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BarackObamasBigEars · 10/06/2009 15:11
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