I'm slowly coming to the conclusion that I really don't like the man I'm married to. We've been going through a bad patch for a few months now but it had seemed like it was getting better and on the surface we're not arguing like we have been and things are all a bit more civil.
The thing is, he is so negative about everything whereas I'm a really positive, optimistic person. I like to see the good in everyone and in life in general but he's the total opposite & he manages to spoil even the nicest days out with his attitude.
He always thinks he's right and whenever we have an argument he always turns it round onto me saying things like 'you see what you've done now? If you'd just kept your mouth shut...blah blah blah' I'm not the sort of person who'll just keep their mouth shut if I see or hear something that's clearly wrong (or dangerous, in the case of his driving).
He has a horrendous temper, I can hear him now shouting and swearing at his computer upstairs because it's going too slow for him. Why shout at a computer for God's sake?
Ugh, sorry for the rant but I don't know what to do. We're talking about having a second baby at the end of the year but in my head I don't even know if I can stand to be with him. I wish I liked him more but we got married really young and I think we've just grown up so differently...
Has anyone felt like this? Do I stay and hope it improves (or just pretend I still love him) for the sake of our LO or do I go and hope there's something better out there for me? I'm 28.
Thanks x
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maggie21 · 02/06/2009 23:17
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