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dh took viagra for the first time last night......

(75 Posts)
shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 14:12:05

f**king hell!!

has anyone else's dh ever tried it? if so how did you find it?

also i know it says on the box that it is not for woman but what would happen if i did take one?

girlandboy Tue 28-Apr-09 14:12:58

Ooooh, tell us more............

Flower3545 Tue 28-Apr-09 14:13:35

If you take one at the same time as Dh I think you both spontaniously combustwink

PortBlacksandResident Tue 28-Apr-09 14:17:06
bamboobutton Tue 28-Apr-09 14:17:26

i took viagra once, i think it was half a tab, it makes you really, really wet.

shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 14:21:56

<sorry if tmi!!>

dh took it about 10-00pm when we went upstairs, he had a shower while i watched a bit of only fools and horses (grin) then we spent about 10 mins wondering what might happen.

all of a sudden it started to 'stir' then popped right up, 4 sessions later it would still not go down and we finished of with a bit of anal that thing you cant mention on here.

girlandboy Tue 28-Apr-09 14:24:20

<<crosses legs and eyes watering>>

iheartginashoes Tue 28-Apr-09 14:25:47

where did you get it from if you dont mind me asking?

Dp and I would like to try some but would have no idea where to get the proper stuff IYKWIM?

hobbgoblin Tue 28-Apr-09 14:26:19

Did he get a headache yet?

HuwEdwards Tue 28-Apr-09 14:28:21

4 sessions???? and one up the jacksy?

I'd flush it down the bog.

solidgoldSneezeLikeApig Tue 28-Apr-09 14:29:48

Hopefully he got it from his GP: if you buy stuff off the internet it could be anything - and Viagra is a bit risky for people with heart conditions, hypertension etc.

AddictedtoCrunchies Tue 28-Apr-09 14:30:26

I'm having a sneaky read at work and I've just burst out with a big snort and whoop of laughter at this thread.. The entire office is now staring at me.

I love this site.

iheartginashoes Tue 28-Apr-09 14:30:41

sg... would you know to get the proper stuff from?

shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 14:31:59

no he left really early this morning for work so i dont know if he had a headache or not (i fell asleep pretty sharpish)

think we will be keeping the rest for a weekend though, bot much for a school night.

iheartginashoes we did actually get them from the doctor, he has been getting councelling for something that happened earlier on the year that had knocked his confidence and had a bit of a knock on effect with our sex life.

shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 14:32:38

bit to much!!

iheartginashoes Tue 28-Apr-09 14:32:56

no way would dp go to the doctors sad

Oh god DP would be a nightare on Viagra, i call him the walking hard on as he always ssesm to have one already without Viagra in the equation! grin

Now tell me does it make you horny (mentally) or does it just give an erection?

FAQinglovely Tue 28-Apr-09 14:33:25

DH got some from the doctor too.............ooooo I tell you what - we may have decided that the relationship is not going to work as a relationship and to just stay as friends.........but damn I wasn't complaining when he took them grin blush

girlandboy Tue 28-Apr-09 14:33:32

What made you stop at 5??

BitOfFun Tue 28-Apr-09 14:34:55

An ex took it once (prescribed) and it didn't go down at all- he ended up in A&E, presumably with a couple of burly porters trying to force it down...perhaps?

shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 14:36:46

i was bloody knackered.

do you not think 5 times was enough hmmgrin

girlandboy Tue 28-Apr-09 14:41:00

Just wondered.wink

I'd have been unconscious at twice!

DawnAS Tue 28-Apr-09 14:47:28

Bamboobutton, can I ask you a question about when you took it? I'm PG at the moment and amazingly, sex drive has rocketed.

Really don't want to go back to my really low sex drive once I've had the baby (although a screaming baby in the same room may put both of us off for a while grin) but wondered whether viagra boosts your sex-drive aswell as making you "wet" as you eloquently put it!! grin

solidgoldSneezeLikeApig Tue 28-Apr-09 14:49:38

How viagra works on women's low libido depends on what's caused the low libido. If you don't want sex because your DP is pissing you off, taking a pill won't work - if it's due to other meds you're taking, or another physical cause, it might help.

morningpaper Tue 28-Apr-09 14:53:52

ermm this doesn't sound very LIKELY tbh

it doesn't 'start to stir' of it's own accord, viagra only helps the natural sexual arousal impulse

TBH I would be asking your husband some serious questions about his reaction to David Jason

DawnAS Tue 28-Apr-09 14:54:23

Ohhhh, it's normally because I just don't fancy it or I'm tired... So it may not have an effect then? I'm usually up for it through the day - especially since I work from home - but DH is at work so that doesn't help!!

I guess on the other side though, it can't hurt to try it can it? hmm

WantManualForKids Tue 28-Apr-09 14:58:33

Time for a chaps perspective, methinks:
Apparently, according to a friend of mine, etc etc, Rule #1 for recreational use of V. (i.e. if you don't have problems getting it up) is never use it on a school night just in case you find yourself with a raging stiffy for many many hours afterwards... which can be very uncomfortable, inconvenient or both. Never use it if you're trollied, or have any suspicion of a heart condition.

You can get the real thing online (just google it) but beware there are lots of immitations out there.

Women who take it are more prone to headaches afterwards, but it generally does produce, um, physiological effects - never psychological though - so don't think you can just pop a pill & feel fruity :-(. There are lots of biotech firms trying very hard to create the pill that will do that, unsuccessfully so far.

merryberry Tue 28-Apr-09 15:33:39

am rofl 'David Jason', very hard, as it were.

bamboobutton Tue 28-Apr-09 15:39:08

dawnAS i took it yeeeeeeears ago, long before ds turned up and shriveled my sex drive to a dried out husk.

i think it made me hornier but it was at the beggining of the relationship so we were all over each other anywaygrin

SomeGuy Tue 28-Apr-09 15:47:14

We bought some in Egypt. Very cheap, about £1/tablet. 100mg tablets. They also had Cialis, which is a different chemical with similar effects and a longer half-life, which means it's advertised as lasting 36 hours. They only sold that in bottles of 50, which seemed a bit much, so didn't buy it.

Anyway, we cut the 100mg Viagra in half, had one half each.

I'm 27 BTW, in the past have done it about five times without any Viagra, but not for quite a few years. Twice is no problem though.

You have a slight headache within a few minutes. It has a sort of 'should not operate heavy machinery or drive a car' effect to it.

Had similar effect on wife, we didn't think that much to it really. Slept quite poorly (and not just because of the shagging) - it gave us a bit of a headache. She was quite tired so it might not have been the best time to attempt an all-night sex marathon - we only did it twice I think. Perhaps worth another go though.

Definitely worth a try though. It says on the packet 'for erectile disfunction'. That's not true - it has a 'shag more times' effect too.

I think you can order it from Boots, etc. online, though you'd probably have to say you're a 60-year-old man who can't get it up, so not sure if that's recommended or not.

The pills are sold in 100mg, 50mg, or even 25mg sizes.

100mg is far too much unless you're a geriatric, 25mg might be worth a try. They all cost about the same, so just buy the 100mg. It's fairly easy to cut in half, though quartering is rather trickier. There may be devices to help with this.

Article on women taking Viagra here: www.guardian.co.uk/lifeandstyle/2007/mar/11/familyandrelationships3

Like I said, why not give it a try....

iheartginashoes Tue 28-Apr-09 16:30:08

Any reputable online places recommended?

JustCallMeGoat Tue 28-Apr-09 16:33:59

lol @ only fools and horses as a sex aid.

SomeGuy Tue 28-Apr-09 16:39:32

Online places tend to be quite expensive because the pure online ones will need to write you a private prescription.

Try here, quite reputable:

onlinedoctor.lloydspharmacy.com/sexual_health/impotence-treatment/Buy-Viagra-Cialis-Levitra-online

Expensive - about £12/tablet.

Blondeshavemorefun Tue 28-Apr-09 17:33:31

dh and i have taken it a few times - just for a laugh

1st time was in a pub and after about 10mins he had a raging hard on, i felt really hot and horny blush and we got a taxi home asap and had great sex (not that we dont anyway but ykwim

though do make sure if your man takes it, then you are also in the mood even if you dont take it, as nothing worse than having a gh with a stonking hard on which wont deflate grin

xfabba Tue 28-Apr-09 17:39:44

do you come each time and then it comes straight back up? cool

morningpaper Tue 28-Apr-09 17:46:41

> do you come each time and then it comes straight back up?

Who the hell are you shagging? Weebles?

expatinscotland Tue 28-Apr-09 17:47:22

thank you for sharing.

elsiepiddock Tue 28-Apr-09 17:53:35

Am I odd?

I can't think of anything worse!

princessmel Tue 28-Apr-09 17:58:06

LOL at HUW and MP!! Wheebles...lol

nikki1978 Tue 28-Apr-09 18:14:53

My hubby has taken it a couple of times recreationally but it doesn't seem to have the never-ending erection effect on him. After he takes it he still needs to get aroused (doesn't just pop up) by itself. It is harder than normal but that is about it. When he is no longer aroused it just goes down (he has always been able to maintain an erection after he has come so made no difference to that). We did buy it from a friend though - am wondering if it is a bit rubbish (the stuff we got that is...)

shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 19:39:03

just checked and its the 50mg that dh had.

xfabba i dont think it actually went down at all after coming, it just kind of stayed standing to attention grin

as for "ermm this doesn't sound very LIKELY tbh" hmm why not? guy takes viagra and gets hard on which lasts for 5 sessions? do they not cover this in peoples friend?

WOW, four fucks and a poke up the shitter?

Good for you.

SomeGuy Tue 28-Apr-09 19:44:08

nikki1978: I reckon you've got fake stuff. Sorry.

RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion Tue 28-Apr-09 19:44:34

<meh>

We did just that on Sunday, but with no chemical help.

tiredemma Tue 28-Apr-09 19:46:46

Four pokes and one for good measure up the arse on a school night sounds like my idea of hell.

BCNS Tue 28-Apr-09 19:47:52

hell and danmation! If I had sex that many time in one session.. I'd pass out and not walk for a week!

did he cum every time? or was he all dried up??

< images of dried apricot balls>

shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 19:51:01

nikki1978, i would think that if you are in any doubt at all it must be the fake stuff.

scarletlilybug Tue 28-Apr-09 19:53:06

Sounds like my idea of hell. Doesn't it get a bit.... well... tedious?

Anyone know where you can buy bromide on-line? wink

shavenhaven Tue 28-Apr-09 19:56:14

its not something i would like to do everynight but tbh after a rough few months i felt like i seen a bit of my old dh again.

hopefully this will be enough to give him back some of the confidence he has lost.

mrsmaidamess Tue 28-Apr-09 19:58:27

I love the way SomeGuy casually drops into the conversation how many times he can do it in a night with no ill effects.

morningpaper Tue 28-Apr-09 20:13:30

actually Nikki yours sounds far more normal that the others - sounds like about the right dose for your chap, the others appear to be troughing a tad too much grin

SomeGuy Tue 28-Apr-09 20:21:07

>actually Nikki yours sounds far more normal that the others - sounds like about the right dose for your chap,

Technically her chap probably doesn't need it at all.

But the thing is you can tell if you've taken Viagra within about 10 minutes from the side-effects, headache, etc.

So just noticing it being a bit harder is most likely psychosomatic. Just thinking about having taken it is likely to make you hornier, and think that you have to do it more times - even if you just took a blue sugar pill.

It's not Viagra, but there's a fab website here:

www.ecstasydata.org/ where people send in their E's, and they get analysed. It's amazing what is (cocaine, meth, ketamine, aspirin, etc.) and isn't (mostly MDMA) in these things.

Fake drugs are very common.

morningpaper Tue 28-Apr-09 20:28:37

IIRC: SOME people get headaches as side effects, but lowering the dose can help with this. SOME people also get blueish/blurred vision. Some people just get a nice hard plunger.

Leni75 Wed 29-Apr-09 20:50:17

A friend of a friend was selling some viagra 'off the back of a lorry' in his local bar, he would take one, go to bar, go up to girls, put their hands on his knob and suggest they might like to get some for their boyfriend so he could have one like that too....apparently a successful selling technique.......

Leni75 Wed 29-Apr-09 20:51:43

PMSL at the whole thread though........especially four fucks and one up the shitter.....CLASSIC!! grin

brutusbaldwin Thu 30-Apr-09 22:42:01

I just love mumsnet!

cariboo Thu 30-Apr-09 22:55:02

husband/wife viagra (or other sex-enhancing drug): like going back to being 18 & all over each other & having that quivery, watery ache of pure lust in your tummy & nipples & lower down. I so miss lust!grin

Rollergirl1 Thu 30-Apr-09 23:15:58

Me and hubby have taken a few times, but always alongside other narcotics and on nights away from the children spent in hotels. So quite difficult to tell if the viagra or the combination of everything else...

cariboo Sat 02-May-09 10:55:35

we're not into narcotics much.

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Dahlen Thu 23-May-13 16:55:16

Viagra works by regulating the blood flow in the penis. It has no effect whatsoever on on libido, although it has been documented that it can somehow appear to affect libido because of the placebo effect.

For people who don't have ED issues, viagra usually has no effect whatsoever, although it does reduce the 'resting' time between erections. Again, anecdotal evidence to the contrary seems to be about the placebo effect.

Why anyone would take this recreationally is beyond me. Are they not worried about the body becoming so tolerant to it that at some point they become unable to function without it?

gettingeasiernow Thu 23-May-13 18:56:06

I took viagra daily because back then (2000/2002) the doctor thought it may prevent recurrent miscarriage. It didn't change my libido which was fine anyway. It gave me a headache, flushed face, and I felt grumpy and fragile. Wouldn't bother if it were just for fun.

gettingeasiernow Thu 23-May-13 18:57:26

And it didn't prevent the miscarriages either.

DownstairsMixUp Thu 23-May-13 19:02:40

My other half took it for a while when he was on anti depressants as they were causing issues with him down there. I didn't notice a massive difference apart from he would sometimes want sex quicker after a session and he'd get a headache a short while after taking it.

Mondrian Fri 24-May-13 05:58:15

I prefer Levitra (Bayer) as headache is milder. Use it once in while on our special nights in conjunction with alcohol & weed. Alcohol affects erection in a negative way but it does also delay climax so when used in combo with V you get a "long run" Weed on the other hand enhances sensation so the combo of all three is quite an experience ... But all in moderation (1/3 tablet and a couple of beers or spirit mixes) you need to be moderately fit and healthy. DW uses lubricants as both alcohol & weed dehydrate her, she has never tried V or similar.

Both DW & I do feel as if there is a little more hardness (girth & length) with these types of pills which adds to the enjoyment, this is more prominent with Viagra & Levitra than Cialis which is longer lasting. Cialis does not bring on a headache but DW doesn't like it as she ends up with a horny husband for the next week and that's on 1/2 tablet.

You can get them from some drugstores without prescription but obviously not the chains or reputable ones.

Fairylea Fri 24-May-13 06:03:16

No thanks, I'd rather have a mug of cocoa.... four sessions and a round up the chocolate motorway doesn't sound appealing!

CheerfulYank Fri 24-May-13 06:09:16

Still laughing at four pokes and one up the shitter grin

Mrsrobertduvall Fri 24-May-13 06:22:50

Good grief shock
I like to be tucked up watching the ten o'clock news.....5 times would mean I'd have to watch Question Time as well.

travellingwilbury Fri 24-May-13 06:40:35

Four yrs old ! Why ?

DevonCiderPunk Fri 24-May-13 06:46:24

This thread is 4 years old. I wonder why it was brought back to life?

(am grateful for the chuckle tho)

picnicbasketcase Fri 24-May-13 06:47:44

It's still taking the pills. Just popped back up when you thought it had finished.

DevonCiderPunk Fri 24-May-13 06:48:01

Mind you if I'd had 4 shags and a "finish off" in one night, I'd probably still be talking about it 4 years later, too

pebblepots Fri 24-May-13 07:00:45

Gettingeasiernow sad

AnyFucker Fri 24-May-13 07:28:29

zombie thread

ladyjadie Fri 24-May-13 10:37:52

Some people just get a nice hard plunger. grin

Realising it's a zombie thread sad

Totally worth it for this comment alone:

"It's still taking the pills. Just popped back up when you thought it had finished." grin grin

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