Having trouble reaching orgasm with boyfriend!

[Fizzfiend]

This is bothering me and I knew someone here would have the answer. BF is very skilled in bed and usually I have no problem getting there. However, the last 2 times, I have faked it because I feel guilty making him work so hard. It feels so good but I can't quite tip myself over the edge.

I only see him once a week and then we don't always have sex so inbetween I have been masturbating a lot. Do you think this is part of the problem? I always thought that the more you came the easier it would be to come, but now I'm not so sure. Any advice?

[fourkids]

IME it's better if you save it up iyswim
Wishing I had the energy to namechange....

[Claire2009]

Don't think about it too much!

[Supercherry]

Throw a vibrator into the mix to, er, tip you over the edge.

[BitOfFun]

You just have to drink so much you don't give a shit how long he's down there for. Works for me

[MintyyAeroEgg]

Hmmmm. You seem to have a very narrow field of interest on Mumsnet fizzfiend.

I think you should consider finding a different forum. One that might actually give a jot about your "trouble" with "orgasms".

[Fizzfiend]

Minty that is so not true...I have commented on all sorts of things on MN. But I also love sex and want to get the best out of it. In the past some MNers have given fantastic advice about sex...if this doesn't fall into the relationship arena where would you suggest? Or do Mners not do sex in your opinion?

[BitOfFun]

Awww, is it trolling? Still, my top tip may help someone....

[fourkids]

might be trolling ...Fizzfiend (sorry if this flashback is wrong...very sorry, honest!)...but are you the MNer with the specially positioned bathtap???

[MintyyAeroEgg]

Oh sorry, I am judging based on the infrequency of your posts. I forget not everyone posts more frequently than 3 x per month .

As you were.

[AnyFucker]

bathtap????

pmsl, do tell more.....

[fourkids]

might be someone else!

Someone has a bath with the tap in a position that allows for using the running water for...ahem...recreational purposes. Unless I dreamed that...

[thisisyesterday]

just use the shower head, no need for a fancy tap.

fizzfiend, have you been particularly stressed? worried? anything else up in the relationship?

[AnyFucker]

come on, fess up fourkids

it's you, isn't it?

[fourkids]

I don't think it was on a thread about bathroom fittings though..

[BCNS]

haaaa what have I missed??.. bath tap?? hell I hope it was a mixer type!

[themoon66]

If i tried the shower head/bathtap combo, I'd be too stressed worrying about how much hot water I was using up!

[fourkids]

Id be too distracted by getting the temperature just right! And running just a little but more hot in every few minutes till i was boiled...and who wants boiled bits? huh?

[Fizzfiend]

YES! It is me with the bath tap in a funny position...well remembered. And fourkids once you get the temperature right, you're okay...our house has pretty regular water temps!!!!!!

thanks KerryM...I must remember to try and switch off from the here and now which is tough sometimes, especially for women I think

[fourkids]

ha! sorry to bring it up...it just suddenly struck me,

It sounds a bit uncomfortable to me...I like to be comfortable