Just wanted to see if the collective wisdom of mumsnet can help me please!
We've been married nearly 3 rs and have 17mt old DD. DH and I have been driting further apart for last few months and now it has all come to a head.
He says he doesn't love me in "that way" any more, and he's tried but he can't even give me a hug. He says there isn't anyone else, but I think that one of his problems is he finds fatherhood too much hard work and a bit boring really. He would rather sit and watch TV or play computer games than play with DD.
He doesn't know what he wants, or why he feels like this and when we try to discuss things his "I don't know" blocks progress.
I really want us to work things out, but I don't think he really wants to try. I can't quite believe that our wonderful DD isn't enough to make him try anything and everything.
I have found motherhood pretty tough as well, had pnd, and undoubtedly neglected my DH and our relationship. Now I don't know how to go about trying to make things better when things are so cold and frosty between us all the time.
Is there anyone else who has been through something similar and can pass on any tips to try and improve things please?
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Ciscas · 17/03/2009 14:43
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