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I slapped the ow last night and i feel soooo much better!

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ambercat · 15/03/2009 22:48

thats it really, feel like i have closure now!!

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BoysAreLikeDogs · 15/03/2009 22:52

okaaaaay

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BecauseImWorthIt · 15/03/2009 22:54

How on earth is this civilised behaviour? I'm sorry, I don't know your story, but surely this is stooping too low?

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solidgoldbrass · 15/03/2009 22:57

Hope your good feelings will comfort you when you get charged with assault.

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edam · 15/03/2009 22:57

must have been very satisfying.

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ambercat · 15/03/2009 22:58

I feel great, it has been a long time coming and she deserved it along with the drink in her face.

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SerendipitousHarlot · 15/03/2009 22:59

How unseemly.

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twigsblankets · 15/03/2009 22:59

Oh Dear. Are u still married and yr DH still seeing the OW?

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KerryMumbles · 15/03/2009 22:59

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BecauseImWorthIt · 15/03/2009 22:59

Words fail me.

Cheap, tacky, chavvy - how about those to start with?

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edam · 15/03/2009 23:00

lol at a harlot saying anything is unseemly ? particularly in this context.

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GetOrfMoiLand · 15/03/2009 23:01

Are you 16?

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SerendipitousHarlot · 15/03/2009 23:02

Hehehe. But I'm a posh harlot, y'see?

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ambercat · 15/03/2009 23:03

me and dh making things work, she is now with one of his friends, was out in my town,, she lives miles away and had no reason to be there. Have been dignified and restrained for a year and last night something snapped!!. I have NEVER hit anyone before and hopefully never will again but i'm not sorry i did it after what she did to my family.

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BecauseImWorthIt · 15/03/2009 23:06

Sorry - no excuses. Horrible behaviour.

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twigsblankets · 15/03/2009 23:07

But yr DH had an affair with her?

What did you do to yr DH?

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solidgoldbrass · 15/03/2009 23:07

I sincerely hope you get a visit from the police. Your behaviour was contemptible.

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Fimbo · 15/03/2009 23:09

You should have been the bigger person and risen above it.

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hannahlouhoo · 15/03/2009 23:09

oh its all her fault i see, have you hit/ attacked dh as well then?

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ambercat · 15/03/2009 23:10

i have dealt with dh!! its more the fact that she will not go away and leave us alone, i know dh is the one who betrayed me but she is just awful. i just don't feel bad about it, she deserved it.

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what2donow · 15/03/2009 23:11

Surely what your DH did to your family was much worse? He's the one married to you after all

From what you say it sounds as though she has moved on. Your behaviour suggests you may not have.

If I was her, and your 'slap' left any kind of visible mark, I would have gone to the police. If she doesn't you should in all honesty think yourself lucky.

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beanieb · 15/03/2009 23:13

I remember your other threads. Didn't he also have a whole load of one night stands? Shame you are not able to slap them all then?

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samestuffdifferentday · 15/03/2009 23:13

LOL. I agree with Kerry, well done you.

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Jaquelinehyde · 15/03/2009 23:13

Ambercat you are not cheap, tacky, chavvy, stooping low or any other insults people want to throw at you.

You were mearly a woman who snapped as you rightly said.

Everyone gets pushed to there limits and over them sometimes. Everyone needs to stop being so bloody holier than thou.

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Fimbo · 15/03/2009 23:14

i know dh is the one who betrayed me but she is just awful. i just don't feel bad about it, she deserved it.

It takes two to tango. Your dh is just as much at fault as she is.

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samestuffdifferentday · 15/03/2009 23:16

What Jaqueline said. Come on, all of you, have you never been so infuriated by anyone that you've wanted to slap them?

If you say no, I say liar-liar-pants-on-fire.

I'm fairly certain that Ambercat doesn't go around hitting people on a daily basis.

Personally I wish you'd taken a picture Amber, of her wearing your drink, so you could have posted it on here.

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