I love my friend, probably my best friend but her DD can be awful sometimes. I have a dd the same age as her (6yrs old). They live just down the road from me so nice and handy if we pop round each others for coffee or roast etc. The girls go to different schools though and we have very different views on life.
Her DD, who i will call x is rude to most people, has bad table manners, the list goes on. Im not saying my DD is perfect, far from but she gets punished for being rude to me (for instance today i took her DS away from her for being rude.) x doesnt seem to get punished and today sat at the dinner with elbows on table being rude. My DD then thinks she can behave like this, which obviuosly she cant.
My DD doesnt really like seeing her as she can be very bitchy towards DD and often says hurtful things to my DD. Her mum has been called in to school because X has been bullying.
Tonight when we left, me and her mum where talking and I laughed at something and x said 'oh just shhhh Nikki' and ran into the house, I was shocked and her mum just said 'oh i'll see you later'!
I dont know what to do as I dont really want DD to mix with her but how do i explain to my friend? There have been so many things in the past that have happened and i am not sure this is affecting the way my DD is behaving. Any advice please? Thanks and sorry to rant!
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npg1 · 15/03/2009 19:36
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