We've had 4 months of relationship hell...basically ongoing inbalances in our commitment and respect which resulted in a huge flirtation between my DP and a lady.
We've done talking, shouting, making up, did one session of counselling then I did another on my own, but the bottom line is that now we just have to move on.
All is well on a daily basis, but the slightest little thing seems to blow up in to a crisis again...so DP assumes I'm ok to be the designated driver/taxi to our friends at the weekend and doesn't even ask if it's ok. I then kick back and say 'it would have been nice to have been asked' and then hugely emotionally charged text back about 'why are you being like this...thought we were better?'. How do you fix these situations? Is this common? Help/advice please.
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HELP! How to recover from REALLY bad patch?
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robin3 · 05/03/2009 13:25
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