Me and my partner have been discussing moving in together. We both have children who live with us.
I currently live on a very rough council estate. He lives in a very affluent, 'expensive' village reknown for being 'posh'.
Obviously I can't expect him to give that up to move here and he seems to want me to move in with him, especially as he owns and doesn't rent like me.
I know its stupid but I'm worrying that people will think I'm only with him for the money. I've already had the "no wonder you're with him!" tongue in cheek comments. He tells me to ignore them but it really gets to me. I'm sure all the family are thinking I'm with him as a way of getting into 'the good life' but it isn't like that.
I mean, how on earth could I ask him to a) sell his house to move into a council house? b) move from a lovely area to a rough council estate? c) move his son from a very good school to my local 'not so nice' school? etc etc ...
It makes sense but I'm really worried
I'm also worried that we won't 'fit in' with the village. My son has behavioural problems and I'm sure the school will think 'problem child, obviously because the mother is rough as hell' etc.
And I know my family will take the piss.
Please or to access all these features
Please
or
to access all these features
Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody
Relationships
Moving in together, wandering what people will think
13 replies
JustASadSong · 01/03/2009 19:32
OP posts:
RealityIsMyOnlyDelusion ·
01/03/2009 19:44
This reply has been deleted
Message withdrawn
Please create an account
To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.