My husband and I (sorry can't say DH, he isn't!) agreed three weeks ago that our marriage is over and that we will continue to live together for the children's sake. We know that won't be easy but we're trying hard. I want to sleep in separate rooms but he won't agree, saying that then the girls will know something's up. They are 11 and 9. This morning he asked me to renew our marriage vows, then he will accept us sleeping separately. Apparently this will give the children the 'right' message about us staying together.
I can't agree - I refused to stand in church and tell lies about my feelings for and commitment to him when our relationship as a couple is effectively over and I don't love him, or even care much for him. Also I think it will be far more confusing for the girls than simply sleeping separately and explaining what is happening.
Anyone any idea what's going on in his mind?
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We've agreed it's over and now he wants us to renew our vows!
lilac21 · 08/02/2009 21:32
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