Have been seeing a lovely man for almost a year (can it really be that long?)
Took it v slowly to begin with, both have children and other issues that made "getting involved" a bit difficult, but we became good friends and have enjoyed the time spent together, although has been only about 1-2 eves a fortnight and I never really thought about it getting serious.
That all probably sounds a bit weird, but it's suited both of us because of where we are in our lives atm. We haven't slept together.
Anyway, he works c. 1.5 hrs drive from home. Drove into work this morning, but snow and roads here have been getting worse all day. About 4.30 I texted him to ask if he'd be leaving soon, but he said he'd got lots to do and would be staying very late.
I, very irrationally, instigated our first row - about how he was enjoying having me worried, how he was inconsiderate not to take more care etc.....
He was very nice about it, apologised, said he didn't realise I would worry, that it was lovely that I had etc and that he would make arrangements to stay near work tonight and not drive at all.
So I should be happy shouldn't I? I can't help thinking that I've come over much more needy and naggy than I ever intended to. Also scared myself to realise just how worried about him I was.
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whysoworried · 02/02/2009 20:32
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