Since I had dd2 7 months ago I have been very self conscious of the extra weight I am carrying around. I am bf and find it impossible to lose weight- I have tried believe me I was the same with dd1, and when I stopped bf her the weight pretty much fell off. But I am disgusted by my body. I hate it. I had a lot of issues before I was pg with dd1 and afterwards as well, I have never been happy with how I look. I realised last night how much it is affecting my relationship with dp, which suffered after dd2 was born anyway. I cannot bear the thought of him seeing me naked and if we are in bed and he tries to touch my stomach, which is just a huge saggy mess, I freak out. I know the issue is mine- dp has made it clear that he is not bothered by my body. I have been thinking tonight about how I am desperate to lose the weight (I have about 3 stone to lose) and I have almost decided to stop bf, which makes me sad too. I just want to feel ok in my own skin
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massivetumtumtum · 29/01/2009 22:27
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