Can spend 10-12 hrs each day at w/ends, 3-6 hrs in weekday evenings and is increasingly sneaky about it.
Going on for few years now & he's not only missing out on ds's lovely years (2.8) but not pulling weight with parenting.
I think it's depression related (hating work, poor childhood issues, difficulty bonding with ds, our relationship worsening because of gaming). Crazy cycle.
Refused to come to Relate in November so i went on own but after few weeks was pointless as he not there to contribute.
Gave him warnings that if gaming didn't reduce & he didn't do more with ds & me, we'd go home for Christmas but things carried on...so I went to parents for C'mas.
Was bit of shock for DH but things have got bit better since but just don't know what to do next. Went to solicitors for advise as was so close to leaving if things didn't get better ASAP & this shocked him too.
He def needs therapy, if not just for the depression as I think this the root of the gaming.
Where can I seek info for this sort of addiction??
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I think DH is addicted to computer gaming. Anyone got some good advice?
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TheBestMum · 21/01/2009 14:51
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