My mother, who is sweet and kind and I love dearly has been staying for the past 3 days - she's going home today. DP has been difficult, grumpy and angsty the whole time towards me although he has managed to be polite to my mother. This happens every time either when she stays here or we stay with my parents - they live over 400miles away so can't do day trips.
It makes me so sad. I can see she is trying really hard to be an easy guest and get on with him but he feels he can't relax with her around. He gets narky as he feels he can't potter around as he normally would despite being reassured constantly that he can. She notices and has asked before if he doesn't like her. It breaks my heart.
Has anyone got any ideas about what I can possibly do to get him to chill out a bit. I refuse to stop seeing my parents, I love them very much and they adore DD and she loves having them around too.
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Any advice on how to help DP chill out about my mother
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miffymum · 12/11/2008 11:38
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