I'm 3 months pregnant with my first child, me and DP are delighted. We live together, but DP is registered at his mum's address for all official things for one reason and another (nothing dodgy!).
I expected he'd move his official stuff here now, but he says he sees no reason to change it all over. This worries me a bit.
Just to be clear, I'm secure in our relationship, I'm not worried about this from an emotional or commitment point of view - he's a wonderful guy and is going to be a great dad.
But on a practical level, will this cause us problems? In case it's relevant - we both work, our combined income is relatively low at the moment. The mortgage is in my name.
If we don't live together officially will we be missing out on things like tax credit? (Not sure how that works yet!)
Will this cause other problems or am I worrying about nothing?
(P.S. Am a regular but name changed for this as am easily identifiable in RL from MN name).
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DP doesn't want to live with me 'officially' - but what about new baby?
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soonamum · 07/11/2008 01:26
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