lesbien relationship

[tater]

i am in a 3 year lasbien relationship 9mos ago i gave birth to our baby now i am having all sorts of mixed feelings about my sexuality i love her very much and i want us to work but i dont know where these feelings are coming from

[hf128219]

Why does she/he have to spell it corectly?!

[tater]

sorry but anyway i am seekig help! yes i have been in relationship with a man

[hf128219]

kerrymum - you were the one who mentioned the spelling in the first place as your response to the q.

[hf128219]

She could have had a sex change.

[tater]

no there is noone i dont KNOW why i feel this way i guess its all my head ?

[Dalrymps]

Have you thought about counselling to discuss these feelings?

[Lesbean]

LesBeen says: I STILL LOVE YOU TATER

Just trying to help mend a love.

Kerry, have you got any fags left? chocolate bisscuits? a stretcher? calipers? not feeling well
ugh bad hiccuphs. again

[tater]

i will continue this later if thats ok ? oh yes i have an she is very hurt and just as confused this is my first relationship like this could that have anything to do with it

[twinsetandpearls]

Kerry I read your post below as How can a lesbian be Home Educated?

[solidgoldbrass]

Very few people are 100% either hetero or homosexual. Most are somewhere in between with the majority being more one way than the other.
It might help you a little to think of it not in terms of your sexual orientation but more as something that happens to quite a few people when they become parents: the partner stops seeming like a sex object and turns into more of a Parent, and you start speculating about other desirable people. It's more to do with the huge shock of having your first baby (no matter what you were expecting it to be like, a bomb has gone off in your world and everything has changed, so you have to adjust to it) than there necessarily being anything wrong with your relationship.