I met dp and had a whirlwind romance, fell in love very qickly and got pg after 6 months. I already had a ds and he has brought him up since he was 2. We have been together for 5 and a half years and have a 4 and 8 year old (previous relationship). Boys love their Daddy alot!I however cant stand him touching me, we hardly have sex and I dont fance him, He goes to work and takes us out for meals, he is faithful and is a good Dad.He isnt physically attractive to me and doesnt make an effort to look nice anymore - he cant be arsed with clothes etc. BTW we are only early thirties. I have started to have dreams about men I know and the thought of kissing another man excites me whereas before it repulsed me!He likes a drink and goes to our local social club a few times a week. I prefer staying in on my own. I dont want to marry him and never will. He doesnt blow my mind and Im not deeply in live with him. In fact im not sure i love him at all. But - we have a house and a car and 2 children and a job each and look the perfect 2.4 family. He is happy as he says s all the time. Im not and am scared im wasting my precious life in a loveless relationship. What should I do, I have the kids to consider? I know the grass isnt always greener but I am wondering......
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Am I just being picky?Not sure I love dp?Help!!!
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shatteredmumsrus · 06/11/2008 20:27
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