Not posted for a little while about things but I could do with some reassurance that I have made the right decision. I left husband at the beginning of August, lived with my mum for several weeks before coming back home (h moved into rented house - i paid the rent ). My 2 dss and I have been back about 4 weeks now and seem to be getting on really well without h living here (he still helps with school runs and has the boys at weekends for a day/afternoon). I'm enjoying being on my own, don't miss him at all and overall think I'm much less angry at the children. Their behaviour, on the whole, seems better and ds1 who is coming up for 8, when I've asked him the question, says he likes it best with just me and his brother. Thing is, h wants to come back and try again and although I feel sorry for him I don't love him and can't trust that he has changed (he's been unreasonable in the past in many ways). We've been married 10 years and divorce was always something I was totally against, but now I'm faced with the situation am beginning to think differently. Surely, if I loved this man and wanted to be with him, I would miss his company?
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Am i doing ok on my own and have i made the right choice?
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littlemissworry · 10/10/2008 20:28
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