DD is six months old - absolutely gorgeous and has been a pretty easy baby up until now. DP and I are going through a really rocky patch though, and it would be good to get perspective from those who've been there.
On the whole I've really enjoyed becoming a parent, and am happy to adjust my life around DD. I've been on ML up until now, but will be going back PT next month. DP has got used to me being around all the time to take responsibility for childcare and chores, I am trying to ease him back into domestic life, but it's a bit of a struggle so far.
He does a lot of voluntary work, and that always comes first. I think he has the sense that this is more important/worthwhile than domestic stuff, and this is leading to loads of rows. I agree that it's important to have a life outside of work/children, but think that home life needs to be top priority, at least while DD is so little.
Feel a bit like we have lost our connection and are pulling in different directions at the moment.
Do I just need to chill out and let him come round in his own time? Or should I be cracking the whip a bit?
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DP struggling to adapt to life with baby - any advice?
dustbuster · 17/09/2008 17:19
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