My friend is such a lovely person and her bastard partner (forthwith referred to as BP) has buggered off with another woman.
I'm not overly surprised. I don't see them often but the last time they visited, she'd mentioned that they weren't sleeping together...hadn't been for months. He'd been sloping off to the spare room.
BP was also pissed off about the arrival of baby number 2, which was bizarre as conception had been discussed and clearly he'd done the deed bareback without worrying! I think it's just an excuse.
Anyway...long story short, my friend is now alone with 2 small children. She's angry, but is being SOOOO reasonable...discussing when he can visit; that she wants to meet the new squeeze before the kids go to stay with him overnight; talking about what he'll contribute financially, etc, all in a very level headed way.
She lives a fair distance from me, so I can't offer much help on a daily basis, but what do you think would be appreciated?
I've offered to shop for her, if needed, but lets be honest...she could shop online if she's stuck, so that's probably chocolate fire guardish in terms of help.
I've said she can ring as much as she wants, whenever she wants, so I'm hoping that might help. I intend to suggest mumsnet as a source of strength too...as I know the ladies on here can be ludicrously helpful when you're down.
But what else can I do? What else would be constructive??? I've only split up from slackassed boyfriends in the past, and never with children, so I'm a bit stuck as to what I can do.
Any ideas anyone????
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Friend's partner has left her with 2 under 5. What can I do???
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squilly · 15/09/2008 20:47
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