Hi. I am after advice really, dont want anyone to be judgemental as going through a tough time at the mo.
I will try and keep it as short as possible. Met DP when I was 17, he is 9 years older. Had DD1 at 21 and have another Dd now. Had PND after I had DD2.
DP is a workaholic, works loads. He has been working abroard for the past 18 months and only coming home at weekends which I have found hard going. Barely seen him these past few weekends as he has been so busy. I do love him very much but we keep going up and down. He always thinks he's right and I have barly any confidence around him. He thinks im irrational and get upset too much when all I want him to do is give me a hug and apreciate I am upset or struggling, instead he looks for answers about how to solve it. I nearly had to drive him to heathrow at 2am this morning with 2 kids in tow (we live 2 hours away) and then I said I think it's best he got the train because of the kids and he said i was being irrational. He didnt want to come in and watch his dd open her birthday presents.
We dont kiss or cuddle.
I feel im getting depressed. He also compares our life to other people or third world countries and says we have nothing to worry about.
I was going to go for the weekend and leave him with the kids but now im thinking i still want to see him and will it be fair?
Is my life really that bad, am I moaning about something I shouldn't be?
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Im not sure I am happy anymore. (long sorry)
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npg1 · 25/08/2008 21:56
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