DP's band is playing a local festival next month. At this point I'll be six months pregnant. Last year we went and camped, got lagered up, didn't get much sleep though it was great fun.
This year is a bit different. I can't get lagered and to be honest I don't really fancy sleeping in a field in a tent, sober, sharing a portaloo (which I will inevitably be at all night long) with loads of drunken people.
I would go along if we could drive home afterwards, obviously I'll be sober enough to do this, but DP wants to stay and camp - apparently "it's a band thing" to want the night to last as long as possible.
I don't fancy this drive home on my own (it's about 25 miles away) at 11pm, so I've decided not to go at all. I haven't told DP yet - part of me is worried he'll be disappointed, part of me is worried that he'll not be bothered! Of course, in my heart of hearts I want him to say he'll come back with me in the car afterwards, but there's no way I'll ever put pressure on him to do that, I don't want to stand in the way of his band time. I want it to be his idea, but I'm getting no joy so far!
Is this really selfish of me though? It's a big gig for them, they don't often get a forum to play their own songs, usually just covers in pubs.
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ButIForgetMyself · 07/08/2008 18:11
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