Been with dp on and off for 5years. Ds is 11months. We broke up throughout the pregnancy but we are trying to make a go of it now. We are planning to get on track and get married.
DP is very busy with work, working all different shifts ad often feels tired and stressed.
I have been suffering from panic attacks recently and have started seeing a counsellor.
Today I the three of us to spend some funtime together and go swimming. Instead he started an argument with me and went to the pub with his friend.
He is still there now. And said he is spending time with his friends he has not seen for ages.
He sees me and ds all the time, but we never have any fun time.
To be honest I find it difficult finding activities that all three of us would enjoy and he never makes any suggestions.
Ds is very hard work but I feel we need to do more baby related activities to help him settle down more.
I feel the reationship is very unbalanced as dp often goes out without telling me first. I would be ok with him going out and giving me 1days notice buthe never does.
I give atleast a weeks notice and resent him for going out when he feels like it and feel he starts arguments for an excuse to go out.
Maybe counselling would help but sometimes feel this is not worth it.
He can be very considerate sometimes. But he is taking his stress out on me and its not fair...
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mummyrayjay · 17/06/2008 20:39
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