Is it ok?

[MilkMonitor]

DH went to his first anger management session tonight. He doesn't want to tell me about it. It's hypnosis. I want to know how it went etc but I'm not pushing it. I suspicious he doesn't want to tell me as he's big on 'no secrets' but wants to keep this as 'his'. I wonder if he's actually been. . . . . .

[Anniegetyourgun]

Ooh, you cynic!

The important thing is not so much whether he went or not, but whether he starts to get better at managing anger. Only time will tell.

[mumonthenet]

don't know your history milk but my first inclination would be to say to you to back off a little. Assuming he did go!

He probably did as if he didn't he would be more likely to make something up?

If this is his first session then I would assume it was quite a big (brave?) step for him and he may need to get his head around it before he can "externalise" it.

[MilkMonitor]

You're right, you're right. It's just that usually he is so vocal and wanting to tell all about everything. I should just be glad he's gone. God, it's terrible being a cynic.

[ginnedup]

My DP had his first counselling session yesterday and I had the same thought as you, when he didn't say much about it. I was just about to say something when he pulled an appointment card out of his pocket showing his next appointment.
I'm so glad I didn't accuse him of not going, and it took him till last night to be able to talk about it properly (once dc were in bed and he felt a bit more relaxed).
Hope it all works out for you