married to a great man, we have our problems but by and large get on fine together. I know he loves me, he does a lot for me and nothings too much trouble. He supportive and kind and I can talk to him about anything. However and its a big however, theres nothing there (at least for me) when we sleep together. I think its always been like that now, infact since we met. I cant even say the sex is crap, its just I dont feel anything physically for this man despite him being very good looking and fanciable. I dont know why I've settled for this, I know how great sex can be from previous relationships. However, its now got to the point where I'm wondering how long I can go on like this, I'm so sick of pretending with him. In the past hes guessed I'm not happy and has taken steps to ahem improve his performance. Its not his performance thats the issue though its the fact I dont feel anything sexually for him. Its a huge decision to end a relationship but at the same time can I spend the rest of my life living like this??
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I love him, he loves me we have a child but theres NO chemistry
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MsDiscontented · 20/05/2008 12:40
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