I am in the very early stages of a relationship. My main passion is travel and his was also, apparantly.
Anyway in conversation earier I asked him what one place in the world he intends to visit before he dies...he said Majorca I was thinking Thailand, Japan, USA or something a bit further away that "Little Britain" majorca.
Anyway when he saw the look on my face he asked me where I want to go before I die so I mentioned the places above (Thailand etc) and he just pulled a face and said "why would you wanna go there?" I explained why and asked him why he was so amazed by Majorca and he said it was the scenery and that most people speak English. I asked if there was anywhere else and he said nurburgring (sp?) in Germany, just to see the race track thing.
This to me is not passion for travel. I always had dreams of exporing the world with a "significant other" but after tonight he just comes across as being a bit boring and dull.
Is this enough to end a relationship over? He's great in all other ways but my mind is set on travel and going yourself is just not the same
I feel a bit sad actually, am I being stupid?
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Is this *that* important?
Peanutz · 20/04/2008 22:01
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