Im a regular, but have namechanged for obvious reasons, not least that dh sometimes reads my posts.
For the past 3 months or so I have been fantasising about having an affair. I love dh and our lo and wouldnt actually do it, but cant help thinking that I "settled" to life with him. I havent had many bf's and wonder if I have missed out. Im not happy at the moment and he knows that, but I dont think he knows ho I feel.
If I go out with friends I toy with the idea of taking my ring off and if i get chatted up I wonder what it would be like to go for it.
Im not a bad person, as I said, I wouldnt do it, butI just want to know if Im alone in this or if there is something else amiss with our marriage.
been married for 4 years btw, but together much longer
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Fantasising about having an affair...
ashamedofmythoughts · 13/04/2008 11:01
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