Ive been with my dp for about 5 years, lived together for 4 and have a ds who is 2.5, he has severe special needs.
Needless to say the past 2.5 years have been so tough soming to terms with everything and going through the whole process of acceptance. myself and my partner have thrown ourselves into our ds and totally forgotten eachother. We have not had sex since the time our son was conceived.
Hes my best friend but I dont desire him anymore and I dont know whether I should be brave and make the break or be happy that were such good mates and hope the rest of it comes back.
The thought of looking after my son alone worries me- its hard work due to his SN and all the appointments. I know I would still have his full support and also that of his family. I just think that if I give up then im going to be letting everyone else down including my son.
Ive felt this way for sometime know but im feeling it more than ever. I just dont know what to do, I dont want to hurt anyone but im only 28 and feel theres should be more to life for me.......am I being totallt selfish. you can be brutally honest with me
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I just wish someone would say 'this is what you have to do'........!!!
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