have name changed for this, but my MIL is DOING MY HEAD IN. me and dh have had a tough 2008 so far, my dad has lung cancer, our cat died, dh had lump removed from face - possible skin cancer and the big concern to us is dh having huge work problems and might lose his job.
my dd will be 6 months old in march when i will be returning to work. She is only grandchild to both sets of parents.
due to possibility of dh having no job, i am reluctantly going back to work full-time (was planning on part-time) and have taken my car off the road to save up in case of financial crisis. TBH i am enjoying the financial freedom of not running a car and travelling by bus esp in rush hour traffic is actually quite appealing.
Anyway, MIL wants to look after dd once or twice per week to help us out. BUT she "simply can't" meet me at a bus stop to hand over dd. She thinks it is "totally unreasonable" for me to ask, and "all her friends" think it is appalling and that i should drop dd at her house and pick her up. She said "but it's not what i had planned"
There are many reasons why it is not possible for me to drop dd to her and collect her, the main one being i dont have a car at the moment and she doesnt live on a bus route.
MIL does not work, drives, gets up at 5am and spends the day doing very little. she says she desperately wants to look after dd but refuses to meet me at a bus stop for handover.
i am very tempted to either murder her, or tell her to sod off and dd will go into nursery. AIBU?
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how many years would i get for murdering my MIL - with mitigating circumstances!
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scummybusrider · 15/02/2008 15:47
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