My soon to be ex has just texted me to say that he cannot have DD this weekend as his alcoholic father is coming back home from abroad and he has to be with his Mum in case he kicks off.
Maybe I sound unreasonable (he has used his father as an excuse many times before), but his Mum is a grown woman and has chosen to stay with this man and refuses to face the situation.
My DD is 3 yrs old and clearly isn't her father's priority and it meakes me angry and sad and just achey inside. He still wants her for one day as he can't have her the following w/e (but says he won't tell me why).
I have told him no as he is usually in a foul/withdrawn mood after a run in with his father, but he says he won't take no for an answer and that he HAS to have her on Sun because HE needs to. But I would rather he had her when he can spend proper quality time with her. I really feel that she should be put first. Am I being a bitch?
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greeneyedgirl · 07/02/2008 14:45
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